This Just In: Something We Already Knew

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This was shared on Facebook via SciBabe: a fifty year study shows that spanking does more harm than good.

Again, for those of us that were spanked or had to deal with physical punishment, we pretty much knew that this was the case. Why? In nearly every case, we remember the humiliation of the punishment but not the actual crime. We remember the erosion of trust but we don’t remember the offense. We remember the tears and the anger but we don’t remember what we did wrong. We remember thinking that Mommy is mean or that Daddy hates us but we don’t remember why we deserved getting hit.

In other words, we remember our parents hurting us but we can’t remember as to why.

There is, of course, pushback. The typical “I was spanked and I’m okay” sort of thing. But one poster in the comment thread on Facebook brought up a very good point: You’re not okay if you think hitting a child is acceptable.

I think that says it better than I ever could.

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About Silverwynde

I'm a Transformers fan, Pokémon player, Brewers fan and all-out general nerd. I rescue abandoned Golett, collect as many Bumblebee decoys and figures as I can find and I've attended every BotCon since 1999. I'm also happily married to a fellow Transfan named Prime and we are both owned by a very intelligent half-Siamese cat. Life is pretty darned awesome.
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