It Needs to be Said

By now, you’ve probably heard about Scott Smith, one of the hosts of the Recovering From Religion podcast. But if you haven’t, the story is here. At first glance, it seems pretty damned tragic, until I read this post by PZ Meyers. As PZ put it:

Let’s get this straight. This man was facing a divorce, and his wife wanted to be free of him.

So he murdered his wife.

He murdered a woman, full stop. Because she wanted to be free of him.

He murdered someone for the crime of wanting her independence.

There is nothing that Smith could have done in his life that could possibly atone for the criminality and inhumanity and selfishness of the circumstances of his death. His behavior was reprehensible and unforgivable. That he killed himself afterwards was not an act of atonement, but of cowardice.

Further, he orphaned three children, who get a life’s dose of trauma and grief right now. This, too, is unforgivable and irresponsible.

He’s right. He is absolutely right about this. If anyone needs to be remembered, it is Smith’s wife Jennifer and his three children. These people need to be remembered, not the man who pulled the trigger. Meyers summed it up best:

Don’t grieve for Scott Smith. Grieve for his victims.

Those are the names I will remember. Scott Smith, not so much.

About Silverwynde

I'm a Transformers fan, Pokémon player, Brewers fan and all-out general nerd. I rescue abandoned Golett, collect as many Bumblebee decoys and figures as I can find and I've attended every BotCon--official and non--since 1999. I'm also happily married to a fellow Transfan named Prime and we were both owned by a very intelligent half-Siamese cat, who crossed the Rainbow Bridge on June 16, 2018. We still miss him. But we're now the acting staff of a Maine Coon kitty named Lulu, who pretty much rules the house. Not that we're complaining about that.
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